मला खूप आठवण आली

मी खूप msg ची वाट पहिली
मनाला मी खूप गंडवलं
पण तरी मला तुझी आठवण आली बे

मन म्हणाले मला
आता आहे खूप रात्र झाली
तिच्या येण्याची वेळ झाली बे

मी सांगितला त्याला
आज आठवणींचीच dvd चालणार आहे
आज नसणार आहे ती बे

मन म्हणाले मला
असा कसा रे तू
तिला जाऊनच काऊन देऊन राहिला बे

मी म्हणालो त्याला
कारण जाईल तेंव्हाच
तर धावत परत येईल ना बे

मला खरच खूप आठवण आली
दशक खरच संपला याची प्रचीती आली
खरच लय आठवण आली बे

फ़िल्मी कहानियां

लड़का : हर दिल जो प्यार करेगा
लड़की : आज क्यूँ बिन बादल बरसात

लड़का : अगर तुम ना होते
लड़की : तो हम उफ़ ये मोहब्बत न कहते

लड़का : हम तुम्हारे हैं सनम
लड़की : तुम हो पत्थर के सनम

लड़का : मुजसे शादी करोगी
लड़की : महासंग्राम

लड़का : हम बोले तो बात पक्की
लड़की : लफंगे परिंदे

तेरा जादू .....

तेरे हर एक लफ्ज में प्यार होता हे
तेरे हर इक अदा में प्यार का इकरार होता हे
तू जाने या ना जाने हर पल ये बताना होता हे
हर वक़्त तुम्हारे लिए हमारा दिल बेक़रार होता हे

दिल दिमाग पे तेरा जादू ऐसा हुआ हे
दिमाग सोच के भी और कुछ सोच ना पाता हे
ये दिल तो बार बार तेरे पास पहुँच जाता हे
कोशिश कर के भी नहीं वापस आता हे

तू हे हसीन कितनी ये बताये कैसे
तेरी आँखों की खूबसूरती बयां करे कैसे
खुद इन आँखों में खो जाने से रोके कैसे
तुझसे हे मोहब्बत कितनी ये बयां करे कैसे

तू.....

थोडा वेळ, थोडा वेळ म्हणतेस
म्हणता म्हणता किती वाट पाहायला लावतेस तू
करतेस नाहीन की नाहीन करत
हा विचार सारखा करायला लावतेस तू...

कामाच्या विचारांमध्ये हळूच शिरून
सगळं काही विसरायला लावतेस तू
तुझ्यावर रागवायचं म्हंटलं तरी..
खाली बघत हसून,माझ्या नाटकी रागाची वाट लावतेस तू....

तुझा हसवा तुझा रुसवा
धरला आहे मी अबोला सांगत, असच शांत बसतेस तू
बोलता बोलता मधेच तूझं ते माझ्यामुळे लाजणं
तुझ्यात नेहमीसाठी हरवून जायला, मला भाग पाडतेस तू ...

सरळ असेल ते प्रेमच कसे असेल

सरळ असेल ते प्रेमच कसे असेल
तुझ्या सोबत आयुष्य नक्कीच वेगळे असेल

telphone वर रोज असतेस तू
माझ्यापासून दूर नसतेच तू
गप्पान मधल्या स्वप्नांसाठी
जीव आसुसला एका भेटी साठी

तुझ्या भेटीसाठी आतुर मन
भेटल्यावर अचानक अनोळखी होते
ठरवलेल्या सगळ्या गप्पांची
मुक्या माणसांची बैठक होते

तुझ्या सोबत असताना
क्षणांची आपापसात चढाओढ असते
अजून लवकर कसे जाता येईल
याचीच त्यांना ओढ असते

सहवासाच्या क्षणां मध्ये
बाकी कसले भानच नसते
एकांता मध्ये पण
तिच्याच आठवणींचीच गर्दी असते

दिवसभराच्या गडबडीमध्ये
कामाच्या धावपळीमध्ये
तिची आठवण हीच एक
हळुवार वाऱ्याची झुळूक असते

तुझ्या असण्याने सगळेच काही वेगळे असते
आठवणींना पण एक मखमली झालर असते
सरळ असेल ते प्रेमच कसे असेल
तुझ्या सोबत आयुष्य नक्कीच वेगळे असेल

Give me some sunshine …….

Child labor we all want to protest and no doubt will say ‘it should be stopped’
I was having dinner when a boy in early teens or just reaching teens was begging for some money as he was hungry and wanted to eat. Before he could reach me he was told by three other people
“ भीख क्या मांग रहे हो
जाके थोडा काम कर लो फिर खा लेना ”

I was observing while standing besides and could not understand what should I be doing if I was that boy or even if wanted to help him.
If I give him money and full feel his current need he will not realize the importance of it and/or may persist with begging. While on the other side if I make him work where he can or will work and will earn and will be able to eat from his earnings, I will be makig a child work breaching child labor laws and much more than that snatching his childhood from him.

What should I do or what should he (that boy ) do?

एक बूंद की किमत

Petrol prices to be deregulated completely is the new hot gossip for Indian politics or parties.
In India bollywood gossips get a tough competitions from political gossips which are wrapped under pseudo name of concern towards the poor.
Deregulation of petrol will add an additional burden of 3.50 Rs (I will stick to this sign till our currency gets a new official logo).
After following this deregulation issue for a couple of days a thought came to my mind.
To keep petrol (I am considering petrol only as its most discussed and hyped issue of all out of regulated goods) regulated Gvt of India has to pay a hefty amount to the Oil companies in cash or in the form of bonds.
Whatever may be the cribbing reasons provided by various parties to keep this regulation going on but this is a part of business where the difference has to be settled.
Why Govt should pay for the rash unnecessary utilization of vehicles by people when use of petrol/ vehicle can be avoided.
If this bonds/ cash is available to Govt for using for direct development wont it will be more worth and benefiting to common man, for whom all cry is taking place.

Increase in cost will make us realize importance of petiole which will automatically curb the utilization to optimal level in sincere citizen of India. This will be an indirect help to reducing carbon footprints of a nation which has considerably lower carbon footprints thanks to its population (data which I got is based on per capita basis). It will make parents ask wards about consumption of fuel, and so will bring accountability to some extent.
I agree if petrol prices goes up then prices of dependent services like transport, foods will also go up. But they will reach a realistic value after this hike which can be addressed in a proper way then.This bubble of cushion has to burst at some moment the sooner the better is what I feel.
Let us see how our UPA (Under Pressure Alliance) is able to push through the proposal.
Open for views and clarification if some assumptions are wrong

Ref for Oil prices :
http://www.business-standard.com/india/news/end-petrol-subsidy-says-ongc/382824/http://www.expressindia.com/latest-news/Pvt-oil-firms-seek-freeing-of-fuel-prices/546998/


Ref for Carbon foot prints :
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_carbon_dioxide_emissions_per_capita

वाटचाल...............

मार्ग धरून चालत राहणं आपल्या हातात असतं
पण विचारात धरलेला मुक्काम असेलच तिथे
याची चाचपणी करण हातात असतच कधी
ठरवलेली वाटचाल करून इच्छित मुक्काम नाहीन आला
तर मार्ग बदलायचा कि मुक्काम.........
हे ठरवण्याशिवाय आयुष्य कठीण असतच कधी
ठरवतो आपण खूप, पण तिथे पोहोचतोच आपण
अस होतच किती
प्रयत्न करून ते सार्थ होण्याचे क्षण असतातच ते किती
तरी प्रयत्ने वाळू रगडीता तेल ही गळे
हे आठवत प्रयत्न करण्या शिवाय आपल्या हातात असतेच काय

तर आमच पण Love Marriage झालं असत.....

कॉलेज मध्ये असतानाच पटवलं असता पोरीला
तर कॉलेज लाइफ मध्ये हिंडून बागडून
नोकरी लागताच लग्नाच टाकल असता विचारून
तर आमच पण Love Marriage झालं असत

शेजारच्या मिनी कडे नुसतच बघून हसण्यापेक्षा
काही विचारायचं सुचला असत
तिच लग्न ठरायच्या आत
तर आमच पण Love Marriage झालं असत

ऑफिस मधल्या सुंदर किटीला, फटका मारेल म्हणून
दररोज ऑफिस मधून निघताना नुसतच smile देण्यापेक्षा
बॉसने देण्याआधी आपण लिफ्ट दिली असती
तर आमच पण Love Marriage झालं असत


वरच काही तर जमलंच नाहीन
किमान कविता करून ब्लॉगवर पोस्ट करण्यापेक्षा
कोणा एका पोरीला mail केली असती
तरी सुध्धा आमच पण Love Marriage झालं असत

गुढी पाडवा

सुख सम्रिधि की हो वृद्धि,
आपकी बीवी ना रहे उतनी जिद्दी
जिंदगी में हो आपके सब सपने पुरे,
बॉस को ना कभी लगे आपके काम अधूरे
सब इच्छाएं पूरी हो तुम्हारी,
नव वर्षी की यही शुभकामनाएं हैं हमारी |

Marriage/शादी/विवाह/लग्न

Whatever is expressed here are going to be my personal opinions and has nothing to do with anyone else. And why I am writing this is definitely a curiosity for many or most who will be reading it, so please use your imagination to figure it out.
What is marriage and why do we get married?
Every girl is skeptical to get married, this is my experience with almost all the girls whom I know and it will be a sufficient number to be taken for statistical consideration, so no questions on that I hope. Till now I have not come across a boy who is really worried about getting married but number will not be zero for sure.
Reason for this jitters are different and typically are .
1. How will I be able to adjust to new place new people?
2. How will he/his family treat me?
3. Why should I leave my parents?
4. What will be relation like?
5. Will I be forced to do things, which I don’t want to?
6. What if I differ on opinions with him/his family?
7. Plans for baby?
8. How is his behavior and relations with female colleagues?
9. How much space are you willing to give to each other?
These are typical questions in a girls mind considering Indian marriages. Last three questions are common for both boys and girls.
Following are few questions which are from boys’ side.
1. Will she treat my parents properly?
2. Will she adjust with my family?
3. How is she in nature and behavior?
These are typically questions related to arrange marriages as many of us are not privileged to experience love marriage. But in love marriages also these questions come and transition of boyfriend/lover into husband is a cause of worry for many.
I will try to put forth what I have been sharing with my fairer sex friends and recently with one of my male friend. This will address to some of the questions put forth above.
Let us start with what is marriage?
Why there is a need to get married?
Is it license required to have sex?
Is it mandatory need of so called human society?
What is it?
See marriage, whether it is arranged or love or love cum arrange is a decision after both involved feel yes we can take it forward.
Yes, many a times this decision is taken by others or individuals are forced to take or accept this decision but situation has improved drastically.
As per me, marriage is an understood decision taken by two individuals to stay together for life time, to be able to take care of each other and related ones.
Sounds full of expectations, isn’t it?
Actually it is not.
I strongly feel marriages have to be worked out and they can certainly be worked out, if you want them too. Parting away is always is an easiest option to choose but is it worth exercising for the reason, is the vital issue.
Any kind of marriage may it be love or arrange or love cum arranged has to be worked out. Seems weird or a bit difficult to digest, but yes it is true. People who are डूबे हुए in एक दूसरे के इश्क में, have to work, in fact much harder as the statement “शादी के पहले तो तुम ऐसे नहीं थे|” starts playing a major role.
After marriage you start to share place and start staying together, you start crossing each other’s spheres ‘n’ number of times in a day. Before you were married this sphere of yours was not interfered that much and definitely not in person so it’s the primary cause of turbulence. This crossing results in some friction and wherever there is friction; energy in the form of heat is generated and this starts to cause wear. 1



Best way to resolve this kind of situation realizing and confronting to each other that this is what is happening and this is troubling me rather than waiting for partner/spouse to realize on his/her own and act. It’s not always the case that spouse/partners are not bothered about issues but many a times they are also trying but direction is not appropriate. It’s simple vector algebra that their efforts may lead to aggravate the situation rather than soothing it. So helping you loved one to resolve the issue is best solution. Here understood truth which is not so much understood many a times is that “Marriage is an association for years, your one time effort may give you returns for life time (such type of returns if available in financial market will be a tremendous success)”
Marriage is a new beginning of a family where two grownups begin leading a family their way. Here word ‘two’ is a bit tricky one as many a time or most of the time this leading is done by boy only. As even though today’s girls are working self dependent but when it comes to being a part of decision making tend to back or buckle out. I must admit this situation is changing but reality needs to be acknowledged. This kind of tendency is right wrong is altogether a different issue but this approach is totally against so called ancient definition of marriage which is “पति और पत्नी सहजीवन या संसार के दो चक्के हैं|”
Somehow we as in the whole society have lost our real values and started perceiving those values which were found to be suitable by the respective generations. This process is leading to a generational filtration of customs and traditions. This is enjoyed by a part of society and other cries over it.
Coming back to the original issue, there has to be equality and I suppose this is the best opportunity to filter out some bad traits in either of the families (boys or girls). It’s a new beginning and hence implementation is easier. Change means friction and hence dialogue is important.
Today mostly both the spouse are working as average education level has gone up along with the need for money generation to lead a happy life and run household. This generates a unique issue which was not there in previously and that is ‘Space/ freedom/room’.
A few years back working women was a rare scene, which has changed drastically now. But still the majority of the workforce is male. This creates a unique problem of ‘colleagues/friends’. This is mostly an issue with male side (wives friends and colleagues) as mostly women are not authorized/ empowered to have an objection. This statement of mine will obviously raise few concerns. In any case either of women r of men, objection on friends and colleagues will have a gradual increasing trend like from being suspicious to cynical. This certainly needs trust on your partner and which can again be built by sharing communicating. A solution which I feel is effective cross interaction of groups. After all a marriage links two families so why not friend circles and colleagues. So respect each others friends and see miracles happening.
Many times in-laws are a concern which again a changing scenario from B/W Lalita 2 is being cruel mother–in-law. But still for a girl it’s like she has to leave her place and settle in other world. It’s certainly not easy but still she feels she will succeed in it with help of her biggest hope that the person for whom she is doing so, will stand by her all the time. If she does not get the kind of support she needs or desire, she starts to hold back herself, again a sort of deceleration and hence friction.
The concern about in-laws these days are from both sides from girls as well as of boys. Many girls want independent life so no disturbance is desired from ageing and bed ridden parents which mostly turn out to be not her but spouses parents. This kind of situations certainly need some tough handling and understanding to be given to the girl and if required to the boy too. Many times as due to job issues couple has to live in other city from that of in-laws. This creates a race and a balancing act about sharing holidays and vacations.
सोचे तो बहोत कुछ हे वरना कुछ भी नहीं
After all above and to summaries marriage is ‘us’ so to have a meaningful us both constituents need to be happy and playing their roles.
Best quote I have come across is :
“A marriage cannot be termed successful until the husband and wife understand what either of them have not said.”
Ultimately marriage is the process of falling in love with the same person again and again.
I have preached share/ communicate as a solution to everything. This can be utilized by a telecom company for sure: D

Reference :
1: For further in depth effects of wear please refer Tribology book by
J. Williams, Engineering Tribology, Oxford science Publication,1994, pp.166-199.

2: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lalita_Pawar

Life मध्ये proportion असतच कधी

Life मध्ये proportion असतच कधी
आकडे जूळवण्यातून वेळ उरतोच किती

पहिल्या भेटीची आठवण म्हणून
बिलाच्याच मागे कविता लिहून
व्यावहारिक प्रेम व्यक्त करतय कुणी
life मध्ये proportion असतच कधी

Valentines day साजरा करण्या साठी
आपल्या Valentine ला मिठी मारत
मागच्या पोरी बघतंय कुणी
life मध्ये proportion असतच कधी

लग्नाच्या खर्चिक बैंड बाज्यातून सटकुन
अहेरात cash आली किती
हे बघताय कुणी
life मध्ये proportion असतच कधी

निरोगी आयुष्यासाठी नव्हे
त by -pass चा खर्च वाचवण्यासाठी
रामदेव बाबा करतय कोणी
life मध्ये proportion असतच कधी

माणसे जोडण्याचा प्रयत्न
आपण करतोच कधी
life मधले proportion
पैश्या पेक्षा वेगळा असतच कधी
Life मध्ये proportion असतच कधी
आकडे जूळवण्यातून वेळ उरतोच किती

सही हे बॉस ...................

In todays so called professional world where blood relations are turning professional. I am experiencing a professional relation where care is being taken like blood relation or even more than that.

My colleague (for future ref he will be X) who is also in the above mentioned category of let us say professional blood relations, was on 3 weeks leave for some personal work. He is as good as a native of Jamshedpur being born and brought up in a small town nearby Jamshedpur and rest of life he has been working in TATA steel.

My boss (for future ref he will be Y) who is head and heads the above mentioned professional blood relation category also. A brief about him, spent his all life in TATA steel. His total work experience is more than my current age. So with this much of background, we resume the real story.

And my reference will be Z.

So as mentioned above X was on leave for some other purpose. Unfortunately his father had to be admitted to TMH (TATA Main Hopital, a medical service run by TATA note at bottom for details) for complaint of chest pain. This disturbed X ; incidently X is called by Y for some work to office as he knew that X is in town only. After coming to office X tells this to Y. Immediately Y asks him in detail and asks to sit and cool down. He listens to whole problem with full attention. Tells him you don’t worry about pending work, Z will take care of it. You go and take care of your personal front. X having never been in such situation seemed to Y a bit confused so he himself suggests what to do and all.

TMH doctors do ECG and say angioplasty will be required and Jamshedpur does not have the facility so patient needs to be taken to Kolkata. Y discusses with X and suggests for new pvt hospital in Jamshedpur. With utmost concern he listens and suggests to X.

Next day patient experiences severe chest pain, suspecting it as symptoms of heart attack doctors start preventive medication. Because of this X becomes more tense and stressed. Y himself tells to his boss and lines up for a specialist visit to Xs father for a better check-up. He does this on his own without any request from Y. In the evening Y asks Z to come to hospital as he is going there, meets Xs father and rechecks follow up line up with his boss.

Hope fully the doc will visit and give some concrete diagnosis. Praying Xs father regains his health, even though heart trouble being permanent , he will have to take medication daily.

Y has been helpful to Z also in many aspects and that to on his own.

In this todays world where people are not willing to help even if they are asked to. Here is an exception. I am not able to understand what to say about this.

सही में सही हैं ना बॉस ..............

It is really true, “Respect can’t be asked, it has to be earned.”

Small note on TMH:

It is TATA main hospital run by TATA for its employees but in a state like Jharkand and that too at TATAs central node, it was opened to all residents. So looking at small statistics 40000 employees of TATA and their family members avg at 4 making it 1.6 lac and say minimum 1.5 lac others. Thus TMH a 1000 bed hospital serves to 3 lac people in and around Jamshedpur. And you will be wondering about the next fact that there is nothing better than this at least within 90 Kms of radius. Here a doctor said in front of me that he has to see 78 patients more (in context of time given to a paitent). This is even though doctors here work in shifts.

Even though being managed by TATA still Dr/ patient ratio is not good and it can’t be improved as you can imagine young dr.s coming to a place called Jamshedpur which does not have even a multiplex (an example of minimum luxury statement, but does have a lot of patients and mostly illiterate and cranky ).

So Dr. needs to be followed up with same reason of no of patients to be seen being very large

Small information, TATA might be one of the only organizations which offers a complete free medical support to employee and his family. Check up costs to medicines prescribed all are paid and nothing special charged for it. Facility extended to retired employees staying in Jamshedpur too. For a special surgery expenses can be reimbursed if certified by TMH doctor. As usual there is queue for this system and hence most obvious outcome bribing for approvals faking is increasing.

But a good has to be complemented by Bad to create and motivate good in new generation.

It’s a cycle I feel and it’s up to us to choose which cycle you want to ride.

आजचा चंद्र म्हणे खूप रोमांटीक

आजचा चंद्र म्हणे खूप रोमांटीक

कोणाला तरी सोबत घेऊन रोमांटीक व्हाव

किंवा त्याला पाहून प्रेम पत्र तरी लिहाव

दोन्ही करण्या साठी कोणी तरी लागतय

तिथेच येऊन आमच घोड रुसतय

पण विचार केला

दोन्ही गोष्टीन मध्ये चंद्र हा आलाच

गाय (gay) नात्यांच्या युग हे

त म्हंटल त्याला पाहून त्यालाच प्रेमपत्र टाकावं

तंत्र ज्ञानाच्या या युगात

इस्रो २०१६ मध्ये भारतीय चंद्रावर उतरवणार म्हणे

वाचून वाटल करून पहावा प्रयत्न;

कदाचित २०१० मध्ये इस्रो चंद्रावर पत्र तरी पोचवेल

चंद्रा तुझा मंद प्रकाश

करतो बुद्धीला मतिमंद

म्हणूनच प्रत्येक प्रेयसी

म्हणते भेटूयात चांदण्या रात्री

प्रत्येक प्रियकराचा

चंद्र असतो खाजगी

प्रेयसीच्या प्रत्येक रूस्व्याला

चंद्र भेट म्हणून करतो तो हाजीर

चंद्र होऊन विचार करता

चंद्र म्हणतो ,तुम्ही आहात नाटकी

वट पौर्णिमेला (करवाचौत ला) मला पाहून

शेवटी जाता आपल्या नवऱ्या कडेच

चंद्राकडे पाहून

काय काय आठवतय

चांदोबाच्या गोष्टीन मधून

सगळ बालपण धावतंय

आज चंद्राला पाहून खरच

खूप काही आठवतंय

त्याच्या असण्याच

खरच आज अप्रूप जाणवतंय

What if this happens in India

Please check out the link:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1240704/Lindsay-Lohan-looks-curvy-slender-sister-Ali.html

India a booming economy , a new technology hub for various sectors ; but still struggeling with the fact of oppression of the weaker may it be fairerer sex (http://www.shvoong.com/law-and-politics/law/1958511-http-timesofindia-indiatimes-com-city/) or any poor who is forced to obey.
We are entering year 2010 with all this aura with us.
Let us think what would have happened if such thing (what Lindsay Lohan did, ref. link above ) would have happened in India.
Imagine any crowded market may it be chandani chowk in Delhi, Lakshmi road in Pune, crawfard market in Mumbai, or market in Goa, ... etc
So please register your views